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I'm in the same situation as you are but on the other side with my girlfriend. For several years we are dealing with the same issue and can't find any solution. Basically, she would like me to help with chores more and I feel alone in the intimate part. Even though you have honest communication (as we have) I would like to express his feelings through my words (if they match): It sucks to feel alone in a relationship. It sucks to try your best to feel wanted and still feel like you are left out. I respected and understood when my GF had stressful times during a 1-2 year period of studies, that she wasn't in the mood. I waited, tried not to push her and make her anxious. But it was the two-sided blade. Once I waited for a week+ these feelings of loneliness pilled up and I was distanced from her, felt hurt and it made us argue. When I tried to bring things up and get her in the mood, she felt the way you described. I'm a more romantically driven person, so I try to buy her some flowers from time to time. I try to surprise her with chores being done. Not exchanging it for sex, but hoping that when I give her some relief or boost her mood that she would want to return that favor. But then I just keep on hoping, get sad/ depressed and stop helping with chores, because of my depressing life demands. It's a vicious circle and I start to question its purpose the same way your husband does. I feel like it is a deep inner feeling of loneliness. And the worst part is that even when you share your insecurities with your loved one, the one who should care the most about you, nothing changes. This is what makes you feel desperate and considering relationship purpose or, in some cases, suicide. Please, even when you talk honestly and take care of each other, try to see his point of view. Sometimes it's not about sex, but sex is a tool for a feeling of being wanted/desired. And that is something that every human being craves to feel. Please if you gonna read this and find any solution that will work for you, share it with me/us. (Sorry for my broken English I'm not a native speaker) (permalink)
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