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best comment
I agree about it being a yellow flag. If you like other things about this guy I'd say you can tell him that you want to hold off on the titles during non-sexual conversations or until you have a dynamic established, but if he doesn't respect that boundary you should probably find someone who does lol. (permalink)
worst comment
Gosh, I'm so, so sorry. That sounds awful. Unfortunately, people who are into BDSM are subject to the same rules as people who aren't. Some of them want to build a genuine connection, and some are selfish, or inconsiderate, or manipulative. To be honest, I've been dating for a while, and I still don't have an answer for you on how to know for sure if you can trust someone. But I also honestly think it's okay if how you see people and how you allocate trust changes a little bit. You're still human, and you're still going to crave human connection and intimacy, both physical and emotional, and eventually you're going to seek it out again. When that time comes, all you can really do is try your best to be a trustworthy and genuine person yourself. It sounds like you really did try your best at this relationship, and as long as you stay that type of person (which you probably will, at least long-term once the heat from this has died down) I think you'll eventually find someone who does their best for you. But for now, I hope you do whatever it is will help you heal, whether that's talk to friends, go outside, bury yourself in work, or something else. (permalink)
best submission
24 [M4F] #Houston #Online - Looking for a kinky sweetheart (permalink)
worst submission
24 [M4F] #Houston #Online - Where’s my shy girl with a secret naughty side? (permalink)
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